Relationships

“Boys, Boys, Boys…Is He Datable?

Yeah,Yeah it’s true! The boy of your “dreams” is eyeing you but you decide to shrug it off. To your surprise after leaving the café’  he asks to take you out on a date. He’s one of the most popular guys at school and everywhere he goes he seems to have a swarm of girls around him. Each guy wants to be him and every one of your friends want to be known as his girlfriend. For some odd reason he tends to have a reputation, hmm let’s just say if your parents overheard it they may not be too pleased. But they say you can’t always judge a book by its cover, right??

BUT he is the number one pick with ALL the girls and going out with him will catapult you to new heights on the social ladder. To top everything off you have not been on your “real” first date or even hade the sacred first kiss yet! While he’s known as being “well experienced” in the arena of girls, saying that you’re anxious is simply an understatement. So with all that running through your mind you are debating whether to confirm to say yes to his date request.

Now, since we’ve got past of how he looks like a model who walked off the runway in Milan, let’s see if you’ve noticed any other qualities other than his incredible physique and perfect face. Have you noticed how he talks to adults, treats the new transfer student in class, or even how he displays sportsmanship on the court? As corny as these traits may seem, they are a perfect glimpse into who he is beyond the surface. If you decide his inner characteristics match your standards go a head and agree to a date (with your parent’s approval of course!)

Now, here comes the REAL TEST. When you go out with who you think is “The Guy of the Century!” pay attention because details tell all. If you guys decide to grab a bite to eat, watch how he treats the waiter/waitress. Does he disregard them as if he’s too good or treat him like his equal? Also look to see if he opens the door for you and is paying attention to you when you speak. Even though you’re distracted by his GORGEOUS eyes, make sure you ask him questions about his friends, family and life goals. These are not fool proof plans but it will give you an idea of his TRUE character. So the next time, you see a guy that catches your eye, ask yourself is he datable? And look at his true traits!

“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.”
— Maya Angelou

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