First Date Fresh!

It liked it happened in slow motion. “He” walked over to you…. no he glided over to your locker as the final bell rung. You knew he was up to something because you caught him glancing at you a little too long in the middle of Mr. Jones notes. As he opened his mouth the only thing you could hear was “Like to go out Friday night?” Simply ignoring where he wanted to take you or what time, you shyly and cooly replied, “sure, why not?” He grins, turns the corner and secretly gives his boy who was eavesdropping a head nod to confirm you said “yes.” All you can do is tell yourself robotically “1. Stop staring after him. 2. Slowly close the locker 3. Please hold your scream until you reach your car.”

Ok so you made it through the 3 step process, called all your homegirls and let out a very high pitched scream in the solitude of your car, now what?? Now you have a week to digest it all and come down to earth. The thought of your crush asking you on your first date is still surreal and gives you butterflies on a daily basis. But for the next 4 minutes I need you to lock in so your nerves can float away and you can enjoy it!

Background Check-Ok, so after you nodded your head agreeing yes, you realized that you forgot what you even agreed to. Was it bowling, movies, a game? Uh oh time to recap. Before the date make sure you get all the details of where,what and time. Not only is it for your safety and helps preps him before he meets the parentals but it gives you a better vibe of the date. Now you can know what to look forward to and mentally prepare for it.

Perfect Fit!– So you got the full background check and now it’s outfit time!Now, you know you’re going bowling and then grabbing a bite to eat afterwards. So you and your girls can make a day of girls time before “the date” happens. Have a few of your girls come over pick a comfy but suitable outfit and it even gives you a chance to get some of your extra nerves out of the way! So now you’ll be fully ready with your date with your dream ‘guy!’ When you know you look fresh on the outside, you’re more likely to relax and be able to focus on your date and not your appearance.

Have Fun!!- So, let’s see I have a secret for you! Guess What??He’s just excited as you are Trust me! I let you in on this insider tip, so you can realize how fly you are and that your job is not impress but simply be yourself and have fun! Talk, laugh, get to know him and just let your naturally fabulousness shine thru! I know the nerves are going to be there at first, but simply enjoy it! Get to know him and see if there would be second.

-C.O.R.E Family