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Good morning Beautiful Girls,

We have to put a stop to all of this senseless violence. Each one of you has too much to offer the world to have your precious  life taken at such an young age.

After Hadiya Pendleton performed with her high school marching band during the presidential inauguration two weeks ago, the King College Prep teen became Chicago’s 42nd homicide victim of 2013. She was gunned down and killed on Chicago’s South Side becoming an unintended victim of a gang dispute.

Hadiya-Pendleton-Chicago-Gun-ViolenceWe know that President Obama cannot solve the issue of gun violence alone. But going to Chicago and addressing Chicago’s youth violence is a priority in dealing with the future of our country.

 

President Obama rightly went to Newtown to comfort the families who lost children in that horrible tragedy. Now, Chicago needs his leadership & guidance. since over 500 families have loved ones to violence in the last year alone.

Please Sign the petition to get President Obama to make a speech in Chicago dealing with youth & gun violence! 

CLICK HERE TO SIGN THE PETITION!

 

*Tuesday Tunes*

Good morning ladies!

Check out new, talented singer Mali Nicole as she covers Justin Bieber’s “As Long As You Love Me”

Enjoy!

*Monday Motivation*

“Never be afraid to sit a while and think.”
-Lorraine Hansberry

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“A woman who is willing to be herself and pursue her own potential runs not so much the risk of loneliness, as the challenge of exposure to more interesting men – and people in general.”
-Lorraine Hansberry

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There is always something left to love. And if you haven’t learned that, you ain’t learned nothing.” -Lorraine Hansberry

Catfish!

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Finance, Latest | by — February 4, 2013

As we begin February, I have two things on my mind, tax season and catfish. Yeah, it’s weird to me too. For 29 years of my life, catfish meant bring light bread, mustard, hot sauce, pickles, spaghetti and your wallet because if you weren’t at a family function, you were probably at a fundraiser. So you can imagine my astonishment when I found out that there is a documentary and tv series about catfish that didn’t involve a deep fryer. For those who don’t know what I am talking about, a “Catfish” is a person who pretends to be someone else on social media with the intention of getting other people to fall in love with them. This activity is so prevalent in our society that two guys made a documentary about it and MTV created a spinoff television series. The “lifestyle” hit mainstream last week when it was reported that the assumed deceased girlfriend of Notre Dame star football player Manti Te’o never really existed. That’s heavy! People fall victim to Catfish schemes because they allow their vulnerabilities to affect their grasp on real life. So, to make sure you have a firm grip, I am going to dispel arguably the longest running Catfish scheme known to youth of lower and middle class families. Your parents’ income tax check isn’t really what you think it is!

_XCL2986When I was a child, I thought that income tax checks were like awards for being American. In reality, a tax refund isn’t a gift, a bonus or a guarantee. It is the result of an overpayment on a federal tax bill. Every time a person gets paid, the government deducts a certain amount from their paycheck in which it uses to help fund the operations of the federal government. At the beginning of each year, they are required to report their income and certain details about their personal lives to the Internal Revenue Service (IRS). The IRS uses this information to determine their tax liability for the previous year. If it is determined that the amount withdrawn from their paycheck was more than their tax liability, they are awarded a tax refund. It’s like giving a cashier $60 to pay for a pair of $50 heels. The cashier will give you $10 in change. The $10 is equivalent to your tax refund.

Typically, the more money you make, the less likely you are to get a tax refund and this is where things get deceptive. Although I haven’t done an official survey, I think most people would prefer an extra lump sum of money every year. I also think that most people would prefer an increase in salary every year. However, in regards to income tax refunds, it is rare to get both consistently. So which is better? It is best to have your money during the year as opposed to a refund later. From the perspective of common sense, I am more comfortable holding my own money as opposed to allowing someone else to hold it.

From the perspective of financial discernment, money earned during the year can immediately be used as an investment to earn more money. This is an example of the time value of money. If you wait a year, you forfeit the potential to earn interest on your money. So regardless of the perspective, it is best to have your money during the year. Unfortunately, too many people have an impoverished mentality and share my childhood perception of tax refunds, valuing that one time a year where they strike gold, green or both. These are the people looking for happiness in all the wrong places. Thank goodness I matured and stopped dating online.

C.Hale

Fresh Style!

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Fashion, Latest | by — February 4, 2013

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Check out Amber Riley’s Fresh Style!

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Style It!

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Health/Beauty, Latest | by — February 4, 2013

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Sometimes it’s easy to get stuck in a rut by wearing the same old hairstyles. No worries, check out a couple of quick & easy looks that will help remix your style!

*Talent Spotlight*

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Daily Blog, Latest | by — January 31, 2013

Good morning, Beautiful Girls!

Check out the talented Chloe & Halle as they cover ‘Nuclear’ & ‘Girl On Fire’…

Speak Out!

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Daily Blog, Latest | by — January 30, 2013

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Hey beautiful ladies!

Ok, so let’s have a truth moment. Do you HONESTLY think it’s cute when guys walk around wobbling because their pants are  literally at their knees? Yeah, we don’t think that look is too hot either. I mean fitted jeans are trendy nowadays but unfortunately we  still have guys for some reason who want to show their boxers. Gross!

A group called the Black Mental Health Alliance of Massachusetts is behind a controversial ad urging black youth to pull up their sagging pants.

In the ad, a black police officer sternly advises against the divisive style by mentioning some staggeringly harsh consequences; including a $300 fine and up to three years in prison!

From All Hip Hop:

The video, targeted to young urban dwellers in Massachusetts, is the brainchild of Dr. Omar Reid.

Dr. Reid, President and Founder of BMHAM, said the video’s purpose was to address the growing issue of young men walking in the streets, without regard and respect for themselves and their community.

“This is just the beginning of our public strategy to encourage parents, schools, police, social service agencies, housing agencies, faith-based organizations along with men and women in our community to take a collective stand and tell our young men and boys to pull those pants up,” said Reid.

 

Do you think the trend of saggin’ will ever pass?  Do you think it’s cute when guys do?

SPEAK OUT!

 

*Tuesday Tunes*

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Daily Blog, Latest | by — January 29, 2013

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Good morning, Loves!

It’s Tuesday…you know what that means! Another hot track to jam out to in the morning. Check out Jacob Latimore’s new song & vid “All Mine.”

*Monday Motivation*

“Saying ‘Yes’ to anything is easy. It’s what you say ‘No’ to that defines you.”  -Ciara

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“Being able to self asses, prepares you for the future. There’s nothing more powerful than knowing when you were wrong.”

– Ciara

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“Don’t limit yourself because you are a woman because you can do exactly the same that a guy could do.” – Ciara